How to get over ‘Impostor Syndrome’ when you’re presenting
Everybody with a soul feels like an impostor sometimes. Even really confident and experienced people, never mind those of us with less experience, at earlier stages in our careers. Knowing how to get over ‘Impostor Syndrome’ in when you’re presenting, and generally in work and life is a great strength to develop. Here’s how:
Ever felt like a ‘fraud’ at work, especially when tasked with a presentation, despite your proven abilities? You’re not alone. This feeling, known as ‘Impostor Syndrome’, is common among all kinds of people. But guess what? It can actually be your secret weapon for personal and professional growth. Let’s dive into how embracing these feelings can enhance your performance, particularly in presentations.
Understand Impostor Syndrome:
It’s easy to label Impostor Syndrome as a sign of weakness. It isn’t; it’s a reflection of your self-awareness and that’s a good thing. You might be an accomplished professional, a high-achieving athlete, a creative soul, or recently promoted out of your comfort zone. Yet, you doubt your abilities, fearing exposure as a ‘fraud.’ Don’t worry. This is a normal psychological pattern, especially in high-stakes situations.
Flip Doubt into Growth:
Self-Awareness: Your Emotional Intelligence Tool:
Feeling like an impostor often stems from a heightened self-awareness. This awareness is a key aspect of emotional intelligence, crucial in understanding your impact on others during presentations.
Use it to drive your Learning:
The doubt associated with Impostor Syndrome can be a catalyst for your learning and growth. If you’re due to give a big presentation, you’re right to be asking yourself if you’re ready. Even the best presenters hone their presentation preparation, design and skills regularly. Because they’re professional.
Acknowledge being under prepared: Your Cue to get to work:
If you feel underprepared for a presentation, you probably are. Get back to your process and use this as a motivator to make sure you do everyhting you can to make the most of the opportunity. Winging it is never really the best available option. Follow this checklist to make sure you’re on plan.
- Understand what the audience wants and needs from your presentation
- Be really clear on your message – and test it on a sample of the audience before you do all the preparation
- Create really simple visuals for illustration and emphasis
- Rehearse like a professional
- Present as yourself with skill
- Get feedback afterwards – what did you do well, what could you add or do differently next time
Balance your Introspection:
While self-reflection is valuable, during presentations, focus outwardly, on the audience. Engage with your audience, understand their perspectives, and help them. It’s not all about you, and focusing on them will stop you thinking about yourself.
5. Practical Tips: to help you manage Impostor Syndrome if it strikes you:
- Acknowledge the feeling:
Understand that these feelings are common. Recognizing them is the first step to overcoming them. - Talk to people:
Share your experiences with mentors or peers. Often, you’ll find they’ve felt the same way and can offer valuable insights. - Reframe Your Thinking:
Challenge your negative thoughts. Remember, your success so far is not just luck; it’s the result of your hard work and skill. Talk positively to yourself. - Celebrate Your Achievements:
Keep a record of your successes and positive feedback, especially related to your presentations so you’re building up a bank of experience. And remember that real confidence is based on experience. So put all your successes and small lessons to learn down to experience. - Learn:
You haven’t ‘failed’ even if it’s gone badly. Own the good stuff, and fix the things that didn’t go so well for next time. That’s building your resilience and confidence in credible ways.
Impostor Syndrome is as part of being an intelligent and emotionally intelligent person. Especially in a professional setting where you’re constantly pushing your boundaries and learning new things. Train yourself to see that occasional ‘Impostor’ thought as an opportunity for continuous growth and development. Embrace it, especially when preparing for and delivering presentations. Here’s a short video that adds an extra perspective to our theme.
This shift in perspective can be your key to a more confident and effective professional life.
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